How a band should look, should have no bearing on their musical abilities. What I found so offensive was your blatant bigotry. Over the years I have nursed people that have had gender reassignment surgery and know the stigma that they have faced. My best mate is a youth health advisor. Over here in New Zealand we have a lot of kids who are trans-gender and Fa'afafines(google it).New Zealand has the highest suicide rate in young males, That’s why I found your comments insensitive