I do not understand the families reaction to Jack wanting to donate to the Fund. I fail to see what he did wrong. I fail to see what the band did wrong.

I don't think he took this tragedy lightly. He seems to have gone through his peronsal hell in the last 10 years. What he said in the interview, which is quote above in Captain's post, says it all.

Saying he would do anything to change what happened if he could, and that is sorry is "enough". You only apologize when you are responsible for something. The club owners should have known that there was an important fire hazard, and should have prevented the band from using pyros (something they did before without any problem). Had the band refused to play without pyro, cancel the booking. GW are not at fault. They lost a band member, so I do not think they carelessly would have played if they felt what they were doing was dangerous.

This is a tragedy. Not the first one, not the last one. I fully respect the families loss and sadness. I just feel that they are not blaming the right person.